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What is the happy reality of our generation?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 02:20

What is the happy reality of our generation?

Pluses:

>Both Central and State. Most of the Leaders were educated in the finest traditions of liberalism, often at Oxford and Cambridge and they had sacrificed their ‘cushy futures” for the cause of independence. When country’s rule passed into their hands, what would one expect?. Little if any corruption at the highest levels, or at least the perception of it.

> The horrors of Partition meant that the Govt would make sincere efforts to put all that behind us and accommodate all faiths.

How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.

We had to wait for everything. Cars, Scooters, you name it. Nehru’s socialism meant that like the Soviet Union that he admired: There was a wait list for everything.

Even though inflation was rising, there was a semblance of stability in the daily routine of everybody. The institutions and arms of the Govt. worked for the most part. Judiciary, Police, Govt bureaucracy etc.

People got married the old fashioned way (mostly).

Why are people becoming increasingly hostile to pro-lifers? I am pro-life.

There are also proliferation of IT cells that offer an altered reality of the world, as they would like to see it and not as it really is.

Boys and Girls were strictly segregated.

Foreign goods, forget about it, mostly sold in black markets.

Why do some men like older women?

Ministers etc. were the only ones to have the Indian Flag on their bonnets. (Don’t know why?)

5 Star hotels are dime a dozen.

The middle class was small, but not that stressed from inflation etc.

Short story writers, what is your favorite character you've created and do they appear in more than one of your works?

Hindi Cinema had some great songs and tunes, even if many of us in the South especially didn’t understand such words as Ishq, Waqt, Zulf in the Hindi songs.

Live-in, LGBTQ, none of these made the headlines.

I will also assume that this question is posed vis a vis my generation and compare that to conditions faced by generations today.

What does it mean when your husband comments and likes other women on social media? He has private IG and TikTok accounts that I have no access to. He has saved videos and pictures of women on his phone.

Young Kids have a lot of money these days and are getting married much later.

Thank you for the question. Ms. Priya C.

2014- Present

Can Donald Trump use the Alien Friends Act of 1798 to give ALL illegal immigrants an ultimatum: You have 1 month to leave America, after which you will be arrested and jailed for 3 years?

Very few boys strayed and even fewer girls.

> We grew up basking in the first flush of the pleasant prospect of an “Independent” resurgent India.

On a personal level.

Is the Philippines PH a poor 3rd world or 4th world country forever and forever?

1991- 2014 ( P.V. Narasimha Rao/ MMS)

1964- 1984–1991 ( Roughly Indira/ Rajeev Gandhi)

Redefined

What are some examples of a threat to democracy in India?

The Airports have gotten better and nicer.

South Indian Films have now gained an All India Traction and seems to be edging out Bollywood, as it portrays less of a fake India than Bollywood.

Education has gotten so much more expensive.

How do I know if I am a bitch? I try to be a nice person but people often jokingly call me a bitch. My family calls me a bitch sometimes too.

IIT’s had just been established.

Computers were just creeping in and opposed by the Labor Unions.

Live in relationship; Divorce (almost unheard of in my youth) don’t raise an eyebrow.

Do women lack the mental strength to succeed at STEM? There seems to be few women at STEM and more women leave STEM after a time of working at it. How can it be just sexism if women aren't banned from entering?

I’m going to attempt to taxonomy “Generations” in India as below.

Life went on in essentially as a late 19th/early 20th century mold.

As far as the vast majority of Indians, who lived from hand to mouth, there was hope and relief in a plethora of laws passed.

What factors may contribute to intelligent individuals identifying as Republican rather than Democrat in the United States today?

There was no TV… Doordarshan of very poor quality only reserved for New Delhi.

> India’s population was around 365 million.

> River Dams, Public Sector undertakings, Five year Plans galore, HMT, HAL, ITI etc. gave us the aam aami the euphoric feeling that we were on the right track to our deserved place as a great power in the comity of nations.

Why don't I get sleep at nights?

> “Secularism” was dinned into our ears until it became “second nature”, to most of us anyway.

Your parents chose your career path and also your profession. Aptitude be damned.

Many Indian Journalists have now been co opted so that they too are now in the money making business and currying favor with the powers that be. So how objective can their writings be?

South Indian Cinema had great actors and story lines that we could relate.

There are Engineering Colleges in almost every street corner, it seems.

The first flush of enthusiasm of the Nehruvian age soon turned into despondency as Public Sector Industry after Public Sector Industry were all running in losses.

> Leaders such as Nehru, Rajaji, Morarji Desai etc. were held to the highest standard and they fulfilled that expectation. The idea that they were corrupt was unthinkable, any more than the thought that one’s parents had sex with each other. It was an age, in retrospect, of “innocence” and not just at the level of us kids.

The big Cities have gotten bigger and is almost unlivable now, traffic wise.

1947–1964 ( Post Independence Generation). (Roughly Nehruvian)

Boys and Girls these days are not afraid to be friends to each other (My opinion overall a good thing)

Medical Insurance have proliferated along with US style expensive Doctor Bills.

Newspapers also heavily censored themselves- clashes were referred to as “communal disturbances” between two communities. No details.

Hospitals everywhere in India, with excellent care offered.

And then we did not have Google, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram.

Nehruvian: I belong to the Nehruvian Generation.

I will first attempt to use the nomenclature used to distinguish “generations” -albeit from a Desi Slant.

> Idealism reigned supreme, about the Govt. and it people and why not?

Everything is available today without any delay. You have the money, you got it in today’s India.

> Indian Political leaders, for the most part, were all men and some women of the highest educational and moral Calibre at all levels.

Women in India seem to have more freedom, even as they feel more afraid of the general environment.

The first flush of aaya rams and gaya rams were creeping into the body politic of our legislature and that is when I left for the USA and that was almost 50 yrs. ago.

Five Star Hotels were not as ubiquitous as today.

Growing up in this decade.

Study of Law (so important in my Dad’s generation gave way to Engineering and Medicine)

Now folks on Quora have undoubtably heard the so-called term “Boomer Generation” used in the US. Interestingly enough these time periods dovetail quite nicely with “Indian Conditions” as well.

Indian Media is being controlled by a few business houses and the news especially foreign news is presented in a slanted way to suit the way, the Govt. would like it to be seen or not seen at all.

It was to me, anyway, a relatively chaste period.

2014- Present ( Modi).

There is a general atmosphere of intolerance towards minorities, with people unafraid to say things that would’ve been unthinkable in my day.

Import Substitution was the mantra.

Govt. careers, such as IAS, IPS etc. very quickly gave way to Engineering /Medical degrees in the newly developing India (At least in the South).

I know that some will cavil that I am ignoring I. K. Gujral, Chandrasekhar, Deve Gowda, Morarji Desai, even the redoubtable A.B. Vajpayee’s stint as PM. But bear with me, for the moment. This is done on purpose and to make comparisons simpler.

Also, the Indian Economy while growing fast, is not able to provide jobs for sizable number of young men in the nation and that is a problem.

Bank Jobs were highly sought after.

Schools were fewer. Universities even fewer.

It was very very hard for the general category people to get seats in the few Engineering and Medical Colleges in the State, let alone the IIT’s.

Now of course,Today Secularism to many is a dirty word and so is Socialism;

Indian industry started to make cars and other goods.

Love marriages were all to be ‘gasped at’ so rare were they at that time.

Foreign Exchange were so hard to come by in case you had to go abroad.